The 24th Sunday after Pentecost, Year A - October 30, 2005
Micah 3:5-12
Psalm 43
1 Thessalonians 2:9-13,17-20
Matthew 23:1-12
Siblings of the Heart
Deborah Hutchison
In today’s gospel, Jesus lambastes the religious leaders of
his faith, the scribes and the Pharisees, for their hypocrisy. But, his
critique of religious authorities who don’t live up to their
own teachings is, alas, timeless and applicable to every religious
tradition. We humans are attracted to power, and we often obtain it
before we are really grown up enough to have acquired the
self-awareness necessary to use it wisely and compassionately. We
humans tend to find it easier in the short term to appear to be pious,
rather than to apply ourselves to the very difficult and often publicly
unrewarding work of actually allowing God’s Spirit to
transform our natures and make us truly holy.
Thirty years ago, Jonathan, our friend John Dillon and I were
attempting to make a living singing the songs we had written while
studying with a spiritual teacher in northern New Mexico. As you might
imagine, our material didn’t go over real well in bars, so,
although none of us had actually attended church for several years, we
were trying to line up gigs in churches within a reasonable driving
distance from Taos, where we all were living. Somehow we managed to
convince the leadership of an Episcopal church in Denver to hire us to
play a short concert during the coffee hour after their Sunday morning
service.
All three of us had attended Episcopal churches growing up, so we
thought we knew what to expect. But the church we knew was the east
coast version of Episcopalian-ism – “low
church”, very protestant in form and function, far removed
from the Roman Catholic roots of Anglicanism. For example, we were
accustomed to Sunday Morning Prayer services, with communion very
occasionally. The priests we had known were usually married, wore
simple cassocks and albs during services and expected us to call them
“Mr.”
Imagine our surprise when we showed up on a
Saturday night in October at St. Mary’s, Denver, and
discovered that the unmarried priest and his unmarried assistant lived,
complete with elderly housekeeper, in a rectory next to the church. I
felt like I’d wandered onto the set of Going My Way. This was
what is known as an Anglo-Catholic parish, an Episcopal church which,
in form and practice, resembles the pre-Vatican II Roman Catholic
church.
In the morning we were awakened by the housekeeper calling up
the stairs, “Father! Breakfast is ready!” Whereupon
priest number one called from his room to his assistant,
“Father! Did you hear? Breakfast is ready!” Priest
number two answered from his room, “Thank you,
Father!” And priest number one responded,
“You’re welcome, Father.”
The service itself was a revelation. It was Communion, not Morning
Prayer, and the priests and acolytes, all dressed in elaborate
lace-trimmed cottas over their black cassocks, had worked out
liturgical choreography worthy of Gladys Knight and the Pips. It was
all so interesting and, to us, strange, that we were paying quite close
attention to the worship when the assistant priest began to read the
gospel. It must have been the 24th Sunday after Pentecost ,Year A,
because one line really stood out, “And call no one your
father on earth, for you have one Father-- the one in
heaven.”
Given the flurry of “Fathers” we’d just
experienced at breakfast, we sort of expected immediate repentance and
amendment of life in response to this direct command from Jesus, but
when we assembled at the rectory for Sunday dinner after the service,
it was “Could you pass the potatoes, Father?”
“Certainly, Father.” “Thank you,
Father.” And so on…
Obviously, this honorific custom -- which goes back to at least the
time of the prophet Elisha calling his spiritual mentor, Elijah,
“father” -- was so deeply enmeshed in our
hosts’ assumptions about priesthood, that their missed
entirely the possibility that Jesus might be calling them to take a
look at, and perhaps adjust, the way they were practicing their piety.
One of the greatest challenges inherent in a serious discipled reading
of scripture is the requirement that we apply what we read to
ourselves. It’s really a call to greater consciousness -- to
knowing ourselves, becoming aware of our strengths and weaknesses, and
committing to the frightening and liberating process of allowing God to
grow those strengths and transform those weaknesses. The great thing
about the lectionary is that the same readings come around again every
three years, just in case we might be ready this time to hear something
we weren’t able to hear last time around.
What I hear today
in this passage is something different than the
“don’t do this” aspect of the reading I
first attended to – don’t call attention to your
religiosity, don’t seek out public affirmations of your
position as religious leader, don’t show off.
It’s
something different from the “do this instead”
teachings, which I noticed more recently – humble yourself,
be as a servant. After all, it’s perfectly possible to make
those admirable traits into yet another version of broad phylacteries
(which are, by the way, two small leather boxes which contain verses
from scripture and are worn by Orthodox and Conservative Jews during
morning prayers). It’s perfectly possible to act
“humbler than thou”, all the while harboring
thoughts about the superior nature of your humility as compared to that
of the other guy. Believe me, I know.
What I’m hearing this time around is Jesus’ asking
me to take a good long hard look at myself, not in order to see if I
have my phylacteries on straight, but to look deep into my own eyes and
into my own soul. He’s asking me to face up to myself, to
acknowledge – for instance -- how much easier it is for me to
present those Denver Fathers (not to be confused with the San Diego
Padres) as examples of religious hypocrisy, than it is to offer my own
flawed self as an illustration of same.
The word “hypocrisy” comes from early Latin and
Greek antecedents which mean “play-acting” or
“pretense”. It’s an equal-opportunity
character fault. We all adopt persona, we all put on masks, in order to
survive in the world. And we all eventually end up identifying to some
degree with those false selves we have constructed. Who we were birthed
to be by our Divine Parent? – well, that true self often gets
lost in the process.
This is the tenth time in the last thirty years that I have engaged
with this passage of scripture and it speaks to me now with great
urgency of the absolute necessity that we live our lives authentically.
We are being asked to grow up and out of the need to measure ourselves
against anything that is of this world – “call no
one on earth your father…” and to fully recognize
and live into our intimate familial relationship with our divine
parent, God.
You will notice, looking at today’s gospel, that
Jesus does not reject the teachings of his and his hearer’s
spiritual heritage – “The scribes and the Pharisees
sit on Moses' seat; therefore, do whatever they teach you and follow
it,” he says. What he condemns is the failure of the
religious leaders to embody the teachings. “…do
not do as they do, for they do not practice what they teach.”
I don’t believe we can embody the wisdom and essence of the
Divine by attempting to put it on, like some garment of holiness.
Embodiment is incarnational. It happens from the inside out. As a deep
wound has to be kept open and allowed to heal from the inside in order
for the flesh to be sound, our true selves must be kept open to the
presence and action of God and allowed to grow from whatever state they
may be in now into the fullness of God’s intention for them
-- wholeness, holiness, authenticity.
That is why, I believe, God came to us in a human body, in Jesus
– to show us that our human nature is intended to be the
instrument of our transformation, the vehicle through which the image
of God in us will come into full expression. As that happens, we will
look around us and see no one on earth we can call
“Father”. As that happens, we will look around us
and see everywhere on earth children of God, siblings of the heart we
will gladly call “Sister” and
“Brother”. AMEN.